

Raising Your Puppy
Bringing home a new puppy is the beginning of a beautiful adventure! With a little preparation, plenty of patience, and lots of love, you can help your new family member feel safe, settle into a routine, and grow into a happy, well-mannered companion.
Raising Your New Puppy:
Everything You Need to Know About Bringing a Puppy Home
At Divinity Grace, we know that bringing home a puppy is an exciting milestone for the whole family. Those first tiny tail wags, sleepy snuggles, and playful little pounces are memories you will treasure for years to come. It is also normal to have questions about feeding, sleeping, potty training, and keeping your puppy healthy.
Whether this is your first puppy or you are welcoming another furry friend into your home, this guide will help you navigate the first few days and weeks with confidence.
1. Preparing Your Home for Your New Puppy
Before your puppy comes home, take some time to prepare a safe, comfortable space. Puppies are curious little explorers, and their world is brand new!
Your puppy preparation checklist:
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Food and water bowls: Choose easy-to-clean bowls and keep fresh water available throughout the day.
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Puppy food: Start with the food your puppy is already eating. If you decide to change foods, transition gradually over several days to help prevent stomach upset.
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A crate or puppy pen: A properly sized crate or secure pen gives your puppy a safe place to rest and helps with house training.
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A comfortable bed and blankets: Provide a cozy sleeping area. Follow safe-sleep practices and avoid loose bedding or items your puppy could chew and swallow when unsupervised.
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Puppy-safe toys: Offer toys designed for small puppies, including appropriate chew toys and gentle interactive toys.
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Potty supplies: Puppy-safe enzymatic cleaner, paper towels, and waste bags will come in handy.
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A collar or harness and leash: Choose a properly fitted option for short, supervised outings.
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Grooming supplies: A soft brush, puppy-safe shampoo, and supplies for gently introducing nail care and tooth brushing will help establish good habits early.
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A veterinarian: Choose a veterinary clinic before your puppy arrives and schedule an initial wellness examination.
Before your puppy explores, put away electrical cords, medications, cleaning products, small objects, and toxic foods or plants. Keep trash cans secured, block off stairs or other hazards as needed, and make sure everyone in the household understands how to handle the puppy gently.
If you have children, teach them to let the puppy approach them, avoid picking the puppy up without an adult's help, and never disturb a sleeping or eating puppy.
2. The First Few Days: Helping Your Puppy Settle In
Your puppy has just left the familiar sights, smells, and sounds of their littermates and previous home. Even a confident puppy may feel a little overwhelmed.
During the first few days, keep things calm and predictable. Allow your puppy to explore one puppy-proofed area at a time rather than giving them the entire house. Offer plenty of reassurance, gentle affection, and opportunities to rest.
Try not to schedule too many visitors or exciting outings right away. Your puppy needs time to learn that your home is a safe place.
A few helpful tips for the first week:
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Keep your puppy on the same food and approximate feeding schedule they are accustomed to.
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Introduce family members gradually and supervise every interaction.
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Take your puppy to the same designated potty area frequently.
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Begin introducing a crate or pen with treats, meals, and positive experiences.
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Keep a written record of meals, potty breaks, bowel movements, sleep, and any concerns.
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Arrange a veterinary wellness check within the first few days of bringing your puppy home, or according to your breeder's contract and veterinarian's advice.
Some puppies settle quickly, while others need extra time. Accidents, nighttime whining, and uncertainty are normal parts of the adjustment process. Patience and consistency will go a long way.
3. Your Puppy's Feeding Schedule
Growing puppies need regular, balanced nutrition to support their development. Small-breed puppies, including Cavapoos, can be particularly vulnerable to low blood sugar when they do not eat enough, so regular meals are important.
At the time your puppy comes home, they should already be eating a puppy food appropriate for their age and size. Continue feeding that food initially, and ask your breeder for the exact brand, portion size, and schedule your puppy is used to.
A general feeding guide for young puppies:
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Around 8–12 weeks: Usually four small meals daily, or the schedule recommended by your veterinarian and breeder.
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Around 3–6 months: Often three meals daily, depending on the puppy and their nutritional needs.
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Around 6–12 months: Many puppies transition to two meals daily, based on their growth, breed size, and veterinary guidance.
These are general guidelines, not strict rules. Follow the feeding instructions for your particular puppy, and do not reduce meals or extend the time between them without appropriate guidance.
For a young puppy, a sample daily schedule might look like this:
TimeRoutine
7:00 a.m.Potty break, then breakfast
10:00 a.m.Potty break and a small meal
1:00 p.m.Potty break and lunch
5:00 p.m.Potty break and dinner
EveningQuiet play, cuddles, and bedtime routine
Adjust the times and number of meals to your puppy's established routine and your veterinarian's recommendations. Offer fresh water throughout the day. Do not withhold water to prevent accidents; instead, plan frequent potty breaks.
If your puppy refuses food, misses more than one meal, seems weak, becomes unusually sleepy, or develops vomiting or diarrhea, contact your veterinarian promptly. In a very small puppy, weakness, trembling, or collapse can be an emergency.
4. Sleep, Crate Training, and Nighttime Routines
Puppies need a surprising amount of sleep! Many young puppies sleep approximately 18–20 hours over a 24-hour period, including nighttime sleep and several naps.
A puppy who becomes extra bitey, wild, or unable to settle may simply be overtired. Rather than assuming your puppy needs more exercise, try a potty break followed by a calm nap in their crate or pen.
Creating a good sleep routine:
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Offer a final gentle play session and potty break before bed.
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Place your puppy in a comfortable, secure sleeping area.
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Keep the environment quiet and reassuring.
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If your puppy wakes and cries, calmly assess whether they need to potty or have another immediate need.
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Take them out for a quiet potty break, then return them to bed without turning nighttime into playtime.
Young puppies often cannot hold their bladder through an entire night. You may need to set an alarm for a potty break every few hours at first, then gradually adjust as your puppy matures and demonstrates they can stay comfortable and dry longer.
Crate training should be positive, gradual, and age-appropriate. Feed meals in the crate, offer safe treats, and allow short periods of rest with the door open before progressing to brief closed-door sessions. Never use the crate as punishment or leave a puppy confined longer than they can reasonably manage.
A little whining can happen during adjustment, but do not ignore signs of distress, illness, or a genuine need to potty.
5. Playtime, Exercise, and Bonding
Puppies learn about the world through play. Short, enjoyable activities help build confidence, strengthen your bond, and provide appropriate outlets for energy.
Ideas for puppy playtime include:
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Gentle games with soft toys.
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Short, supervised exploration around your puppy-proofed home.
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Simple name-recognition and recall games.
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Food puzzles designed for puppies and used under supervision.
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Brief training sessions with praise and tiny treats.
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Gentle brushing, handling, and cuddling when your puppy is comfortable.
Keep play sessions short and allow your puppy to rest frequently. Growing joints and bodies need time to develop, so avoid forced running, repetitive jumping, and strenuous exercise.
Cavapoos and other companion dogs also benefit from learning how to settle calmly. A puppy does not need to be entertained every minute of the day. Quiet time is a skill, too!
6. Beginning Potty Training
Potty training begins the day your puppy comes home. The secret is not expecting your puppy to know what to do right away; it is creating a routine that makes success easy.
Take your puppy to their designated potty spot:
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Immediately after waking up.
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Shortly after every meal.
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After drinking a substantial amount of water.
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After playtime or excitement.
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Before and after crate time.
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Before bedtime.
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Frequently throughout the day while awake.
Very young puppies may need a potty opportunity every 30–60 minutes when awake, sometimes more often. Each puppy is different, so watch for sniffing, circling, wandering away, or suddenly stopping play.
When your puppy goes potty in the correct place, praise them gently and offer a small treat immediately. This helps them connect the reward with the behavior.
If an accident happens: Stay calm. Interrupt gently only if you catch your puppy in the act, then take them to the appropriate potty area. Clean the accident thoroughly with an enzymatic cleaner. Never rub your puppy's nose in a mess or punish them after the fact; punishment can make puppies afraid to potty in front of you.
If you use puppy pads, choose a consistent location and establish a clear routine. Keep in mind that transitioning from indoor pads to outdoor pottying may require additional practice.
Progress is rarely perfectly straight. Your puppy may have several successful days followed by an accident. Consistency, supervision, and patience are much more effective than expecting perfection.
7. Beginning Training: Small Lessons, Big Results
Training starts from the moment your puppy joins your family. At first, keep lessons short—just a few minutes at a time—and use positive reinforcement.
Focus on rewarding the behaviors you want to see rather than punishing mistakes.
Start with these simple skills:
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Name recognition: Say your puppy's name in a cheerful voice and reward them for looking toward you.
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Come: Encourage your puppy to approach you from a short distance, then reward generously.
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Sit: Use a treat to guide your puppy into a sit, then reward.
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Drop it and trade: Offer a treat or appropriate toy exchange when your puppy picks up something they should not have.
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Gentle handling: Briefly touch paws, ears, and the mouth area while offering treats, building comfort for future grooming and veterinary care.
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Calm behavior: Reward your puppy for settling quietly instead of demanding attention.
Biting and chewing are normal puppy behaviors. Redirect little teeth toward an appropriate chew toy, pause play briefly if biting becomes too rough, and make sure your puppy gets enough sleep.
Avoid yelling, hitting, or frightening training methods. Your goal is to build trust and teach your puppy what you would like them to do.
8. Socialization: Building a Confident Companion
The early weeks of puppyhood are an important time for learning about people, places, sounds, surfaces, and everyday life. Good socialization is not about meeting as many dogs or people as possible. It is about helping your puppy have safe, positive experiences at a pace they can handle.
You can begin socialization at home by gently introducing your puppy to:
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Different household sounds, such as the vacuum from a comfortable distance.
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People of different ages and appearances.
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Gentle handling and grooming.
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Household surfaces, textures, and safe objects.
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Car rides in a secure carrier.
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The sights and sounds of the neighborhood from your arms or a clean, protected space.
Allow your puppy to observe rather than forcing interaction. If they seem frightened, increase the distance and give them time to relax.
An important vaccination precaution: Until your veterinarian advises that your puppy is adequately protected, avoid dog parks, pet-store floors, public grass used by unknown dogs, and areas where unvaccinated dogs may have been. Parvovirus can survive in the environment and cause severe illness.
You do not need to isolate your puppy completely. Ask your veterinarian about safe socialization opportunities, such as carefully managed puppy classes with appropriate vaccination requirements, visits with healthy vaccinated dogs in clean private homes, or carrying your puppy while exploring new environments.
The goal is a puppy who learns that the world is an interesting, safe place—not one who feels overwhelmed.
9. Parvovirus: A Serious Warning for New Puppy Families
Canine parvovirus, commonly called parvo, is a highly contagious and potentially life-threatening disease. Young puppies are especially vulnerable, and a puppy may become infected even if they have received their first vaccination.
Parvo spreads through infected feces and contaminated environments, including soil, shoes, objects, and surfaces. The virus is hardy and can remain in the environment for a long time.
Watch for these warning signs:
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Vomiting.
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Diarrhea, which may be bloody.
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Severe tiredness or weakness.
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Refusing food.
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Fever or abnormally low body temperature.
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Signs of dehydration.
If you suspect parvo, contact a veterinarian or emergency veterinary clinic immediately. Call before arriving so the clinic can prevent exposing other dogs. Do not wait for symptoms to worsen, and do not take your puppy into a shared waiting room without notifying the clinic.
There is no home remedy that reliably treats parvo. Prompt veterinary care can make a major difference.
To reduce risk, keep your puppy away from high-risk public areas, clean up waste promptly, and follow your veterinarian's vaccination advice. Ordinary household cleaners may not kill parvovirus, so ask your veterinarian which disinfectants are effective for contaminated areas.
10. Your Puppy's First Vet Visit, Vaccinations, and Deworming
One of the most important things you can do for your new puppy is establish a relationship with a veterinarian early.
Schedule a wellness exam within the first few days of bringing your puppy home, or sooner if your puppy seems unwell. Bring any paperwork provided by your breeder, including vaccination records, deworming dates, food information, and health information for the puppy's parents if available.
During the visit, your veterinarian can assess your puppy's growth, heart, eyes, ears, teeth, skin, and overall health. They can also discuss nutrition, parasite prevention, microchipping, grooming, and the timing of future appointments.
Vaccinations
Puppies typically receive a series of core vaccinations beginning around 6–8 weeks of age, with additional doses every 2–4 weeks until at least 16 weeks of age. Some puppies need a different schedule depending on their age, medical history, risk factors, and local disease exposure.
The exact timing matters because antibodies passed from the mother can interfere with early vaccine responses. Receiving one or two puppy shots does not necessarily mean your puppy is fully protected.
Ask your veterinarian to create a vaccination plan that includes the core distemper, adenovirus, and parvovirus vaccines, as well as rabies and any additional vaccines recommended for your location and lifestyle.
Deworming and Parasite Prevention
Puppies commonly carry intestinal parasites, even when they appear healthy. Deworming is therefore an important part of routine puppy care.
Your breeder should provide records of any deworming already completed. Your veterinarian can determine what additional treatments are needed, whether a fecal test is appropriate, and how frequently to repeat treatment.
Do not assume that one deworming treatment eliminates every parasite. Different parasites may require different medications or repeat doses. Use only products and dosages recommended for your puppy's age and weight.
Your veterinarian can also advise you about flea, tick, and heartworm prevention appropriate for your area.
Keeping up with wellness checks, vaccinations, deworming, and preventive care gives your puppy a healthier start in life.
11. A Sample Daily Routine for Your New Puppy
Puppies thrive on predictable routines. Your schedule will change as your puppy grows, but this sample can help you get started.
Time/Activity
7:00 a.m./ Wake up and potty
7:15 a.m./ Breakfast
7:30 a.m./ Potty, gentle play, and a short training session
8:00 a.m./ Nap
9:30 a.m./ Potty, supervised exploration, and play
10:00 a.m./ Meal, if following a four-meal schedule
10:15 a.m./ Potty and quiet time
Late morning/ Nap, with potty breaks as needed
1:00 p.m./ Potty, meal, and a little play
Afternoon/ Alternating naps, potty breaks, training, and gentle activity
5:00 p.m./ Dinner and potty
Evening/ Family time, gentle play, and a short training session
Before bed/ Final potty break and a calm bedtime routine
This is only an example. Your puppy may need more frequent meals, potty breaks, or naps. Follow the routine your puppy is accustomed to and adjust it as they grow.
12. Remember: Your Puppy Is Still a Baby
There will be sweet moments, funny moments, and moments when you wonder whether your puppy will ever learn to potty outside! That is all part of raising a young dog.
Your puppy is learning how to live in your world. They need consistency, kindness, supervision, and time. Celebrate the small victories: the first successful potty break, the first night with a little more sleep, the first time they come when called, and the first peaceful afternoon nap.
Try not to compare your puppy's progress with another dog's. Every puppy has a different personality and learns at their own pace.
Most importantly, enjoy this little season. Puppyhood passes quickly, and the routines and trust you build now become the foundation for years of companionship.
Welcome Home, Little One
At Divinity Grace, we hope every puppy begins their new chapter surrounded by love, patience, and a family ready to help them thrive. We encourage our puppy families to stay in touch, ask questions, and reach out when they need guidance.
Your puppy does not need a perfect home or a perfect owner. They need a safe home, a consistent routine, proper veterinary care, and people who are willing to grow and learn alongside them.
Here is to a wonderful beginning, a lifetime of loyal companionship, and all the little moments that make having a puppy so special.